As Kathleen Stock has referred elsewhere, the Tavistock has for a long time thought it was rather special and this article confirms that it still does. Of course its child abuse. We all know how that famous road is paved. As Ive said before, closure isnt enough. No concept of it being a vehicle for delivery, the means to and end, because the end has long been forgotten by the left. She arrives not only more mature, but more certain of who she is which is, among other things, someone who does not want to hear, let alone entertain, her mothers questions. The issues around transgenderism do need a synthesis of sorts, but for this to happen, journalists and people in the public sphere do need to de-escalate, take the heat out, and work towards a sustainable settlement, where transgenderism has a protected place, but where complex cases involving young people are given a more accurate diagnosis, and more accurately targeted care. I know, because Ive met some of them. If you dont want to talk, thats cool. Well, Hadley, I hope you enjoyed your trip through the Looking Glass. Yes, the cancer should have been excised not allowed to metastasize. As long as their motivation is good we ought to overlook the harm theyre doing. My colleagues and I have, for many years, had the privilege of being able to assist young people who have autism spectrum disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and bipolar disorder. I really do feel that until legislation is passed banning all medical treatment bar psychological counselling for gender confused children and young people, this madness will just continue and probably just be better disguised. The following is a summary of the conversation that ensued: Me: Im writing a book about unhappy teenage girls and Id love to talk to someone at the Tavistock about it. Such intra-generational intimacy is, I know, a source of boomer pride. My main fear is thatthese people might be allowed to continue their activities, out of sight, in other parts of the NHS. Weirdly, by accepting Johns interpretation and backing down on her word choice, Hadley validates the original Nazisand in a sense, protects them. The police must also caution any person that they suspect may have committed an offence prior to asking them any questions. As a London based NHS worker myself, I am shocked by the number of emails that appear in my in box several times a week which embrace and promote this new gender ideology. The presenter got sacked but is now on GBN. It should reassure you to know that lots of children struggle with speech and language and that it doesn't always mean there is a deeper issue. You shouldnt sound happy at the prospect. I think she has jumped on the bandwagon now the ship has sunk, effectively. I had to find a way to live without knowing. Click to reveal Thats one of the most nonsensical things I have read. It is strongly advised to stay away from whatsoever will soil or alter your integrity within the Police force. Find out more about relationship counselling from the Relate website. Imagine if it were a Catholic run organisation running these kind of experiments. A parents offer of help, large or small, is often heard as a vote of no confidence in her childs ability to figure it out for herself. A lawyer will assist in a number of ways: If youre innocent, you might assume that you can defend yourself. Sometimes talking treatments are held in groups or couples, such as relationship counselling. By the age of two, their development will often even out with children their age, and you can use their actual birth date instead. This particular Twitter conversation was about the Keira Bell case, in which a young woman sued the Tavistock for prescribing her puberty blockers when she was 16. Communicating well is really important and means children can understand the world, learn, talk to others, make friends and share how they feel. Good people worked at GIDS In what sense were they good: in the sense that they gave to charity and loved their family, or in the sense that, within GIDS, they raised questions that ran counter to the pervading, trans for Gods sake, ideology? To aid selection , a constable can request a temporary attachment to a particular squad. The Tavistock is merely the outcome of her ideology the ideology she has followed for years while at the Guardian. As John rightly said, I have been very open about my scepticism about gender ideology, particularly in its application to children and young people. I also think a fair salary would bear in mind the high cost of living here. Bye. 18. Yes, pointless to repost that whole section. They are much more tolerant of writers that dont follow the corporate line than most publications John: But if this ugly thing that happened means we cant work with you, then it feels unjust for you to be like: I approached these guys and they said they couldnt speak to me. Pulitzer to the usual address, please.). But it does seem that too many inside it were more focused on validating a certain ideology instead of looking at what was right for its patients. However in order to arrest in these circumstances (i.e. Thanks. Interestingly, there are interview questions and answers every intending recruit should learn . You have the right to contact the police and be kept informed about the investigation if you're: the victim of a crime. John: Yes, well, this obviously puts us in a bit of a pickle. it isnt enough to shut this place, there needs to be an investigation into what was done and who did it. They'll usually be done face-to-face, but you might be able to have talking therapy over the phone, via email or on Skype. Family therapy is talking therapythat involvesthe whole family. If you've been physically or sexually abused, or have experienced discrimination or racism, you may feel able to cope with life better after a course of talking therapy. At the time, I was writing a non-fiction book about why adolescent girls have, for centuries, expressed their anxiety by harming their bodies. SRA No. But it does seem that too many inside it were more focused on validating a certain ideology instead of looking at what was right for its patients. There is something decidedly Mengelian about these procedures, especially while theyre happening during a time when its illegal for parents or teachers to talk children out of it. I then left a message at Gids, explaining the book I was writing and why I wanted to talk. I have always been sceptical about what I have read and heard about the treatment of gender dysphoria and wondered if it might be a form child abuse to encourage any irreversible treaments at a young age? Is there anything else you would like to say. They are sent by people with titles like Project Manager from the Improvement and Transformation Office or Equality and Diversity Programme Manager and always stating pronouns inviting me to equality and diversity seminars, and sharing the trusts Trans Improvement Policy, and inviting me to register and borrow from the trusts diversity and inclusion book, film and music club. I am trying to stay on my side of the line. It is natural to compare your child to others and it can feel frustrating to see other children chatting away if your child is silent, or struggling to talk and understand. Nobody from GIDS who was not a whistleblower should be involved in these regional centres neither as a practitioner nor an advisor. Or, if in terms of % of population, Pol Pot. and then those members of the public and journalists are blacklisted and censored because the Sacred Cow the NHS must be protected at all costs. I know, because Ive met some of them. I regret that circumstances do occur where perfectly innocent people get charged by the police often because someone will have lie about them and said something which never happened but which they swear did. If you just dont understand why this is happening you really have been asleep for the last few decades. Quite a mouthful, but what it signifies is a globally financed (e.g. Summarize your experience, strengths and skills. Agreed it was trying to kill his chickens I suspect thats why he clubbed it to death as well as being scared it would bite him. These are in place for the proper governance of the time which goes in reporting a crime, before it is forgiven in the eyes of the law. One friend told me that her therapist advised, Preface every question with, Im curious. She then demonstrated the appropriate tone: tentative, undemanding, one that conveys, Im not being nosy, but . You are also agreeing to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Talking therapies are commonly used . Always agreeable to see a Guardianista personally confronted with the inevitable consequences of their chosen ideological outlook. But it does seem that too many inside it were more focused on validating a certain ideology instead of looking at what was right for its patients.. Me: Really? Tell me your reaction if a suspect tries to bribe you, to forgive his /her crime? How to be close when even innocent questions are seen as intrusions. You said: "The Nazis performed medical experiments on children whereas the judges are trying to stop that.". The owner says, Good job. Several close relatives are doctors and, more relevantly, I spent several years as an in-patient in multiple hospitals when I was a teenager. Im still trying to learn more, but that is not going to happen if public services are keeping secret files of peoples tweets and were told No, that bridge is burned. I would say Hadley that it would have been better if on the call youd just owned the mistake of being drawn into the Nazi parallels. until they are two so their development can be tracked. But even I was surprised last summer when I called up the Gender Identity Development Service (Gids) at the Tavistock & Portman Trust for research, and realised they expected to be treated like a celebrity. The short answer is yes absolutely; even if you have not been arrested and are being interviewed voluntarily you have the right to free independent legal advice. The whole Tavistock thing hasnt blown up the way it should have, has it? Theyre trying to do good but actually doing evil. You can refer yourself directly to an NHS talking therapies service without a referral from a GP. Its been reassuring to discover that mine is not the only child to erect a brick wall of tetchy, often angry, silence upon returning to the parental home. Below, we will discuss the police interview questions and answers. Reasons best known to himself. I write searing, incisive takes that will be studied by future generations. I believe ignore the wisdom of the ages at your peril. Mention that you have always wanted to be in a profession , where 2 days arent the same. It was just a bit tangled up in the chicken wire. It's completely normal for police officers to speak to individuals during an investigation, whether they are a witness, suspect or simply someone who needs to be ruled out of the investigation. Who says regional microGids will be any better? They are also specially trained to get you to talk at length because when people do that they tend to give away much more information than they intend. But the only other time Ive encountered an institution (as opposed to a celebrity) that expected to be able to control media coverage, it was the Church of Scientology, and that is not publicly funded. Talking therapy is for anyone who's going through a bad time or has emotional problems they need help with. Me: Do you often keep tweets? Please correct me and explain, if so. But there is a clear distinction between them which we'll discuss later. Me: So what am I supposed to say? Hadley should have defended her use of the termand explained it. It is so important not to continue, be brave and simply say, Id like to stop there and get some legal advice please. Are you claiming the Guardian is not ideaologically driven? Furthermore, Serious Organised Crime Agency is created to provide support to law enforcement partners, notably UK police forces , HM Revenue and Customs. What are the qualities of a good police officer? The Guardian would never publish the article that HF has written here. I want to say a couple of things about this conversation. Hi, Julian, Here you will learn how to become a police officer. A Police officer would risk his/her life to keep unarmed civilians safe from criminals. Theres two much left establishment involved in this. I agree, the term gender critical does feel like using language from a context I dont really agree with/enjoy. So I am a mean girl. This was child abuse, treat it as such and investigate and prosecute. Your rights. After all, they will have learnt a lot from the Tavistocks mistakes and now have a chance to continue its work on a much wider scale. I dont think its healthy to have books that just present one side, but here we are. Would you be willing to well, you deleted the tweet. Studies estimate that 1 in 10 children develop speech, language and communication difficulties, particularly in the early years. So many people are passionate about the police force but they fail to understand certain things. He killed it because he was frightened to engage more closely ie cover it and free it. My beautiful 22-year-old daughter has recently arrived home, college diploma in hand (yay! Once the police can prove that it a lie then everything else you have said is potentially disregarded. Wake up to the day's most important news. All of which makes it look as though you are the one in the grip of a rigid ideology of course, we are all in the grip of ideologies, to a lesser or greater extent. Their work often involves very extensive and time consuming operations. Your child might be behind in their language skills if: There is plenty you can do to help your child and lots of expert help available if you are worried you know your own child best, so just remember to ask a professional if you are concerned. For many adults it may be the same or more effective than medicine. It depends on your definition of good, I suppose. As implied by the name, uniformed Police wear uniforms, which differ in various countries around the world. Our email address is enquiries@burtoncopeland.com, 2023 Burton Copeland LLP | All rights reserved | Website by Run2. It's an opportunity to look at your problems in a different way with someone who'll respect you and your opinions. At a restaurant, the owner recognizes you as a police officer that patrols the neighborhood. Also, never forget to mention that you have integrity and totally honest. (You have to be very careful while answering this question, as the answer should reflect passion). This is happening because the morality you refer to is now almost totally absent across the West, particularly in the public sector and large corporations. Often clients come to see us facing prosecution and having decided not to take legal advice in interview. How can it be moral to decide a child will be turned into a simulacrum of the opposite sex at the cost of the permanent loss of their future sexual and reproductive function? The reason the police want to talk to you is very formal and very far from an everyday discussion that you may normally have. Now archived: https://webarchive.nationalarchives.gov.uk/ukgwa/+/www.dh.gov.uk/en/FreedomOfInformation/Freedomofinformationpublicationschemefeedback/Classesofinformation/Communicationsresearch/DH_4130120. I make it a rule never to bring in the Nazis in any argument/debate. Usually, you'll talk one-to-one with the therapist. She was very different. I have a lifetime of fighting against those who wish to impose their ideaologies on others and I have paid dearly, but I consider it worth it. If you saw a fellow officer commit a crime, what would you do? Performance & security by Cloudflare. Me: So lets talk. James: Yes, Jo Maugham said something, then [Times columnist] Janice Turner said something, then you replied to that. And a lot of these clinicians arent really trying to do good; theyre trying to keep their practicing certificate, trying not to be criticized by the mob, trying to get published, trying to keep their job etc; and in trying to achieve these understandable but selfish goals they are willing to sacrifice your children and mine, which is a deeply unethical way for any health professional to behave (speaking as one). Im picturing the final scene of Indiana Jones and Raiders of the Lost Ark, with a lone NHS worker, wearily pushing into the archive another giant box of incriminating tweets with JULIE BINDEL stamped across one side. And where did they file away the offending tweets? Sometimes it's easier to talk to a stranger than to relatives or friends. They are more likely to assert an editorial policy that does not allow writing about the other side. She is certainly not in the grip of an ideology whether she is writing for the Guardian or Unherd. The Nazi comparison was entirely apt. This particular Twitter conversation was about the Keira Bell case, in which a young woman sued the Tavistock for prescribing her puberty blockers when she was 16. I also tend to shudder when I see The Guardian in a writers CV but judge not as (theoretically) there can be exceptions to the groupthink at that woke factory. In these circumstances, an officer would be entitled to speak with an individual informally. Harassment is any behavior intended to disturb or upset a person or group of people. If you have, you are firmly rejected, and usually given a telling off to boot. James: I see that you did it within a context, and you have since deleted the tweet, but we have it. Most commonly this means they intervene to stop a crime in progress and secure scenes where crime has already taken place. All of them have good people working for them, but in failing systems that are fundamentally the same socialist top down model. A good police officer is responsible for maintaining law and order in a state. Re girls at GIDS rather, theyd found a new way to express a hatred of their bodies This special unit also operates within the Serious Fraud Office. 210.65.88.143 Of course the Guardian is right-on, but you made a sweeping generalisation, without nuance or knowledge (HF has often criticised the excesses of left-wing media). Why do you want to be a Police officer? I watched the Sky press preview after that American shooting in a gay bar. CID officers do not work in the shift system as they are often required to work long and irregular hours. It doesnt matter what the interviewing officer thinks, the decision as to what happens after the interview is somebody elses. Some people say that talking therapies do not make their problems go away, but they find it easier to cope with them and feel happier. And as that poem goes until that happened, this author was one of those who not just kept quiet, but very happy when her set covered up Rotherham, blamed everything on white men or pushed extreme misandry. However, the primary responsibility of a good police officer is providing safety to the residents of an area, while maintaining law and order. Snarky. Talking therapies can help all sorts of people in lots of different situations. Special Units and Departments In the Police force. The police have received an allegation and they need to explain that allegation to you and then get your response. You are off duty. Hadley F is something of an outlier/minority among Guardian writers. I agree. It is often the case that people are invited into the police station for a . Well, you can find good people in all sorts of unexpected places. But he was like a spoilt toddler having a tantrum. If you dont talk to me, I cant present your side. What are you talking about? However, Id expect to be paid the appropriate range for this job, based on my years of experience. They arent good allies and can always be turned against one. Ideally,a coupleshould go to counselling together, but if your partner refuses to join you, counselling can help you sort out lots of things on your own. Are you aware of the Suzanne Moore case? My friends mention of a therapist recently inspired me to reach out to my old therapist for a session. Evil, like rust, never sleeps. I personally feel so strongly about this, that if you honestly believe that you are able to handle a specially trained professional detective in interview then I ask you, most sincerely, to call me free of charge so that I can at least talk to you about it and try to persuade you that a solicitor, any specialist criminal solicitor must be sitting next to you and must have advised you. This is partly to reduce long waiting times. Excellent piece spoiled by too many silly self-promoting and puerile attempts at being flip or hip or both. There are several actions that could trigger this block including submitting a certain word or phrase, a SQL command or malformed data. So imagine the pickle Im in. It not only feels unnatural, It feels unloving. What you need to do is essentially spelled out for you. Other crimes which the CID look into are; major robberies and burglaries, sexual assault, fraud and cyber crime and other levels of serious assaults. Indeed. James: Sure. Me: All my tweets delete automatically. He is also a fervent gender ideologist. You neednt apologize for comparing Gids to the Nazis. Me: If youre asking me to make a public apology in order to talk to one of your clinicians, I think that would just draw more attention to the tweet. Cloudflare Ray ID: 7a1343c769a40738 This comment is a waste of time and space. Talking therapies can be helpful for lots of things, including: depression. But Nazis are not so rhetorically protected. So if someone says, transgenderism isnt real, then trans advocates involved in institutions like Gids, take a more full throttle approach to any presenting candidate, where grey areas and complex presentations are glossed over. Many police constables apply to join the Criminal Investigative Department (CID) but very few are employed. To do that, I ask questions, try to give the responses my full attention and ask more questions. I dont think I understand your point(s). The fact is that if you are suspected of committing an offence you have legal rights which are in law in order to protect individuals. The entire NHS and social services needs to go, not just one clinic. Brief interruption here for some context. The police must tell you this at the start of the interview. Its very easy to find a comprehensive list of this authors articles on Guardian. Police must satisfy one of several criteria in order to determine that it is. Before we look at what might happen, lets look at why it happens. Please correct me and explain, if so. What you should do is give an actual weakness of yours, framed as something that youre actively working on correcting or eager to learn more about. , Id expect to be a police officer is responsible for maintaining law and order in gay. One of several criteria in order to determine that it a lie then else. To assert an editorial Policy that does not allow writing about the other.. 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